
Lead Your Life
Self-led Relationships
1 day online Deepening course with Ruud Baanders
April 18th
9:00am - 5:30pm UK time
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In the Lead Your Life Foundation course and the other deepening courses we learned how to integrate the complementary and systemic nature of NVC and IFS with the focus predominantly on internal Self-to-Parts connection (NVC self-empathy).
In this course we will bring the focus on what we have learned into interpersonal relationships, e.g. in intimate, in friendship, in workplace relationships.
We will be exploring the interactions and dynamics in places where people with their Internal Family of Self and parts do meet each other.
The aim of this course is to show you the possibility of Self-Led relationships, a place where the interactions between people can take place within the consciousness of Self-leadership instead of a parts led leadership.
Self-Leadership in relationships will support you to be become really curious, caring, compassionate with the parts of the other person.
All parts are welcome! We will see the managers, firefighters and the wounded young parts of the other. This will foster mutual understanding and a way forwards to personal, interpersonal and world healin​g.
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In this course we will explore:
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Self Resonance
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Interactions between different type of parts
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Parts Resonance
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Sharing pain or trauma bonding
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Approaching others from Self
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Various scenarios in relationships
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Guided meditations
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Practice
Booking and Contribution:
I offer this course within the consciousness of a gift economy.
So I ask you to get in touch with your and my needs to decide what financial contribution you would like to make. Any contribution is welcome!
Maximum number of participants 18
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A prerequisite for participation is having attended my Lead Your Life Foundation course
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"We are compassionate with ourselves when we are able to embrace all parts of ourselves and recognise the needs and values expressed by each part.”
Marshall Rosenberg
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